Life

How it Has Been and What its Gonna Be

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The New Year brings new hope and old regrets together and allows us to take stock of everything we thought we’d do during the past year, the ideas we started developing and thought  we had time but ….BOOM! the year ends, just like that! Well, I like this part that it gives me renewed belief in myself and my amazing super hero abilities to rule the world.

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How To Win The Battle Between “Following The Trend & Doing What’s Right”

The Yin and Yang of Good and Evil

The Yin and Yang of Good and Evil

How’s work? I asked her, “It’s okay oh! We’re pushing it” was her reply as was many other people’s reply on the issue of work in general but then she proceeded to say, “Have you seen Tricia recently?”
I have! And she looks absolutely fabulous these days, I replied.
“Ehen now, with all that money how won’t she look fabulous? She’s going out with a one governor now and he’s treating her very well oh! She’s lucky because I heard that some of these girls aren’t as lucky as she is ‘cos not all these old married men give money like hers”. (more…)

When You Realise It’s Now Home

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You start looking for a new house, you get it. The next step is to make the house a home, the issue is how long it takes to actually take this bland bottle of cheap wine to a vintage vino… Yes this is how long I think it takes to make that house a home. (more…)

Is It Just Sex Or A Path To Something More?

Is It Just Sex Or Something More

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You are not in  an “active” relationship, you consider yourself single.

There is this big hole in your chest (some say it’s the heart but I think it has to contain something to be considered a heart when it comes to feelings) at this point we are a bundle of confusion or over confidence, it’s hardly ever in between but I tried to imagine what happens in our heads when we have a hole to fill. (more…)

Ponytails! Very Random Questions with IK Osakioduwa

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1. What’s your favorite emoji? Covering face Covering face emoji (more…)

SPLAT!!!

“What does little birdie say?”
Alfred, Lord Tennyson (1809–1892)

From “Sea Dreams”

WHAT does little birdie say
In her nest at peep of day?
Let me fly, says little birdie,
Mother, let me fly away.
Birdie, rest a little longer, 5
Till the little wings are stronger.
So she rests a little longer,
Then she flies away.

What does little baby say,
In her bed at peep of day? 10
Baby says, like little birdie,
Let me rise and fly away.
Baby sleep, a little longer,
Till the little limbs are stronger,
If she sleeps a little longer, 15
Baby too shall fly away.

My translation 👓
And the little birdie went “SPLAT!”
This is my honest opinion, if the birdie is let out of the nest too early it won’t be able to survive it.

If you are human though and you’re reading this (I believe you can teach any primate to do anything these days even read! 😒) then you need to stop over protecting your children & expect them to out develop their own coping mechanism with society.
Be the fight , fight it or create an ideal situation for themselves.

A Little White Lie,Maybe?

 

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I just stumbled across this photo and it brought back some very wonderful but distant memories… If peoples’ noses actually grew long if they lied how many peoples’ noses will still look normal?

I bet lying will be justified as a cool thing to do. Trust us(humans) to make even the worse things sound cool and make them trend!
Sincerity…OVERRATED or UNDERRATED? Most of the time, I feel its not even RATED at all!

Its always amazes me when you can use someone’s sincerity against the person…easily,I might add. In most cases the honest person suffers,I’ve always hated that “its a dog-eat-dog world” saying but its the truth! Its what it is.
How many of us can look inside and be sincere with ourselves? How many of us can keep a normal nose amidst the all the lies around us?

Lying, we do it a lot and we a lot better at it every single passing day. We have gotten to the extent that we fake tell a bad lie so that it will show the person willing to observe that we bad at it.

Researchers say that people even lie without knowing that they are lying! Wait…what? That’s serious.

We are first and foremost social beings and for us successful human interactions are key. It’s also quite clear that lying is a great way to keep an elaborate social outlook even better. Believe it or not when you have a good social standing you gain all kinds of advantages like being the cool kid or hanging out with the cool kids (thus making you a cool kid) and having lots of sex.

Going around saying all kinds of honest things actually makes you seem mean, for instance you say “She is a BBW” instead of saying “She is fat”. Suddenly the terms you use make it easier to tell these things as compared to just saying it like that! Truth, lies or white lies? People like white lies better.

How do think advertisers are so rich while the product critics are (mostly) borderline broke? White lies!

So, better liars get better stuff and still remain in good standing with the populace.

Some researchers say we start lying as early as 6 months, babies’ fake-cry! If you’ve never noticed please be a little bit more observant.

 

What are the most common white lies you’ve heard or possibly used in the past? Please share in the comment section below.